Why the modern 9-to-5 is failing working parents and how becoming a VA can help
When catching up with friends it usually goes “how are you and the kids?” and “how’s work?” to which nearly every time there is a groan and a small (or large) rant about how crazy busy it’s been recently and gosh stress levels are high, my god I’m tired, but I’m sure it’ll pass…
Sound familiar?
In today's fast-paced world, both parents working full-time has become the norm. However, this modern way of parenting is full of challenges that make it difficult for families to thrive. Juggling work commitments, childcare, and household responsibilities often leads to stress and burnout.
And I know I’m not the only one to have experienced this. I just need to look around at friends and other parents at the school gates. But I don’t believe we should be living our lives this way! It’s not why we are here.
Finding a more flexible and less stressful way to work is the way forward. That's why starting your own Virtual Assistant business can be a game-changer for busy mums who want to work, are driven, but also need flexibility. I honestly believe the current system is flawed and becoming a VA can be a great solution for you and your family.
The Strain of dual full-time jobs on Families
According to the Office for National Statistics (ONS), 75.1% of families in the UK have both parents working. While this can provide financial stability, it also places significant strain on families. The constant juggling of work and home life often leaves parents feeling overwhelmed and children missing out on quality time with their parents.
The mental health impact
A study by the Mental Health Foundation found that parental stress can negatively affect children's emotional and psychological well-being. When parents are constantly stressed and unavailable due to work commitments, it has a knock-on effect on the children. The pressure to balance work and family life can also lead to parental guilt and decreased job satisfaction.
Why traditional work schedules don't work for parents
The traditional 9-to-5 work schedule is a relic of a bygone era that doesn't align with the needs of modern families. School hours and holiday schedules rarely sync up with standard work hours, leaving parents scrambling to find childcare solutions. According to the UK charity Working Families, only 40% of parents feel they have the flexibility they need to manage both their job and their family responsibilities effectively.
The VA Business: a flexible solution
Becoming a Virtual Assistant offers a flexible, fulfilling career path that allows you to balance work and family life effectively. As a VA, you can set your own hours, choose your clients, and work from anywhere with an internet connection. This flexibility is invaluable for parents who need to be available for school pick-ups, school holidays, doctor's appointments, and unexpected sick days.
Benefits of running your own VA Business
Flexible schedule: You decide when and how much you work, allowing you to prioritise family time.
Work-life balance: Reduce stress by eliminating the daily commute and rigid work hours.
Financial independence: Build a sustainable income while being present for your children.
Professional growth: Continue to develop your skills and grow your business at your own pace.
Real-life success stories
Many mums have successfully transitioned from traditional jobs to running their own VA businesses. For example, myself, a mother of one from London, I left my corporate job to start my ownVA business. Within 3 months I was fully booked and within a year I was earning more than my previous salary while working fewer hours and spending more time with my daughter. My story is not unique; countless women across the UK have found similar success and fulfilment.
I want to end this post by saying there is no one way fits all when it comes to working and having a family. But I do believe the modern way of parenting while both partners work full-time is unsustainable and detrimental to family well-being. However, by starting your own VA business, you can achieve the flexibility and financial stability needed to create a harmonious family life. If you're a driven mum looking for a better way to balance work and family, consider the VA path. It might just be the best decision you ever make.
Ready to find a balance that works for your family? Download my free guide below on "3 Steps to building a VA business". This comprehensive FREE video will provide you with the tools and strategies you need to start your VA business and find your first clients quickly.
